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I am getting really tired of people coming to me and asking why isn’t so and so in school right now… I want to scream at the top of my lungs that I am not there mom or dad I am just a friend… I can’t make them go to school and I sure as hell am not going to tell there parents how to do there job… My job as a neighbor is to inform the parents of whatever it is that there child is doing… Discipline is on them whether I like there action or not I live with it… It is really not any of my business… Part of the reason I have any success with the kids is I am now friends with there parents… Believe me the most powerfull threat you can make with a kid in the hood is you will tell there grandma…
I look at the kids as friends and i don’t feel my roll in their lives should include telling them they need to go to school… I have to look at the fact that most of these kids don’t want to go to school… So I see my roll as preparing them for life without school… I teach them gardening and landscaping as well as construction… All the things there dads would teach them had they been around… I think this is important stuff for adolescent boys to learn… I don’t know what my childhood would of been like without tree houses and forts…
I never went to formal school myself and most of what I know is self taught… I grew up in the suburbs of Pittsburgh and had a great family… My neighborhood was nice with manicured lawns and gardens… I just want to bring a little of what I grew up with into an area that otherwise wouldn’t have it… Instead of playing football in the street the kids play in the front yard of three abandoned houses that a year ago was so overgrown they couldn’t play their… We mow it every two weeks and now the kids have grass to play in… I got in alot of trouble growing up… I mean a ridiculouse amount of trouble… When I see how mischievious these kids are it is no different than I was when I was a 10 year old boy… The only difference is I had the woods to go be bad in while these urban kids really only have the street in plain sight…
This whole BLOG thing is new to me and I am not really much of a writer so bare with me… I am going to try and keep this up if for nothing else than to try to help re-create this in other neighborhoods… The sense of community that this is creating is absolutely incredible…
http://transitionpgh.org/profiles/blogs/neighborhood-kids-and-my-roll
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